Tuesday, June 22, 2010

What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness & to forget every bad t

Here's the story, She is or was a really close relative to me, We were together since we were born, raised up,ate, slept%26amp; shared every thing together, that was in the 3 vacation months; But U know what? She never loved me or at least not as much as I loved her %26amp; sacrificed for her, She was always selfesh%26amp; very very jealous of me, As I'm lovely with long black silky hair, stylish kid till now %26amp; She is just the contrary, Dont think that I'm saying this cuz I feel highly of my self PLZ, What I'm saying is the truth I swear, I've never done any thing bad to her;no; Iwas so kind with her meanwhile she was evil with me, U just cant imagine how much she hurt me.. The most painfull part here is that :- I really loved her as a sister or maybe more%26amp; all what I get from her is pain, neglection%26amp; she never cared about my feelings, I rememmber I spent 3 months to write a letter for her which she didnt bother herself to just read,I've forgotten her totally for ayear till now, I'm happy without her??



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

Forgive her. If someone is sorry, they deserve to be forgiven because they realized their mistake. You wouldn't want to bet the type of person that follows the eye for an eye theory. Just because she hurt you in the past, doesn't mean you should hurt her too by saying she doesn't deserve forgiveness.



However, this doesn't mean you should welcome her back with open arms. Keep moving forward with your life and never let anyone walk over you again.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

keep her out of your life, and stay happy. why ruin something that's working well for you?



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

I know you love her, but sometimes the ones we love most need to be kept at a distance. I would try and be happy without her.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

Forgive just don't forget. If your happy without her then be happy. why put yourself through more pain.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

She probably loves you. But she sounds like she may be dealing with strong feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem (jealousy). Just be yourself and don't exspect anything in return, cause when you do thats when your hurt. People will never live up to your pre-determind exspectations but they can surprise you and surpass them.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

I think you answered your own question! You forgot about her, keep with it...



My grandfather had a saying:



" Don't stir up Sh**, it will always end up stinkin."



meaning... Just dont go and disturb things that have settled over, it will always end horriably.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

if this person was so horrible to you the entire time you have known her then why would you even consider wanting to re-enter an abusive relationship? If you are happy without her then remain that way - happy and without her!!



You can always tell her that she needs to prove to you and show you that she is a different person! Ask her how she is going to do this what is she going to do and say differently and why all of a sudden has she decided to beg for your forgiveness?



If she doesn't give a satisfactory answer or is exactly the same then don't even consider getting back into a relationship with her!



Good luck in whatever decision you make!



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

You have to decide if you can really forgive this person, let go of the past and move on or if you should leave things as is.



Given her past and from what you're saying I don't know that you will be able to fully trust her again and the relationship may be irreparably damaged.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

Depends on how you feel about her.



Honestly, you don't sound like you want to give her a chance... you sound more to me like you want her to give you a break.



So take the chance of the break to take a break from her.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

What is to be gained by holding a grudge? Why not thank her for being open with you and tell her that you forgive... and know that sometimes all of us don't act the way we know we really should.



The grudge drags on *you*. Don't waste any more energy being mad at her.



What should I do with her??? She sent me a message asking for forgivness %26amp; to forget every bad thing she did!!

This things can happen in life man ,I think you should forgive her atleast you come from far with her man,unlike other people being hurt by strangers give her a second chance she has finally realised that what she had done was bad enough find it in you heart to forgive her let the love and caer come back to you for her ,dont think i didnt read your story i did very well and i anderstand how you feel.slums aka Pesalema %26lt;chao

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