My friend new husband?

my friend just met some one a navy guy. She met him no less than a year ago and she married him. anyways, everytime she invites me and my over he insults me in front of my husband. he said i am a kid and rags on my blonde hair and he knows i am sensitive told him that. He says he just joking but he keeps f with me. my other friend hates him too but we love her very much. So me and my friend called the friend with the alcholic insulting husband and we told her we want to have lunch with her to tell her how we feel.me and my friend are going to tell her we cant stand her husbands insults and we feel he is rude to us and says mean things; She just met him and married him. We are going to tell her that we dont want to see him anymore unless he respects us.he sayhow do you feel she is going to react to this? do you think this is going to come in between our relationship? do you think that she will take our side or his? do you think it was wrong if he says hes kidding

My friend new husband?

You say he insults you in front of your husband, so why doesn't your husband stand up for you? I know that if someone like him insulted my wife/partner in front of me I'd be in his face. I think you should speak to your husband about him first.

My friend new husband?

tell her calmly

and say if shes a true friend shell talk to him about it

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as easy as 123

My friend new husband?

I think you two should actually take it up with her husband instead of her because you're having the problem with him. Your friend can't control her husband's actions.

My friend new husband?

no your not wrong....insults are not funny in any way. My guess is if she is head over heels with this guy, your probably history. Lets hope not though

My friend new husband?

There is always a thing about being too sensitive but you have spoken with him about this. Your friend though isn't going to put her friends before her marriage so don't be surprised if you fall out but I think you are doing the right thing !!

All the best !!

My friend new husband?

Seems like your friend husband is a real jerk and why isn't she saying anything you will have to pray for him because he seems very immature if you talk to her watch how you word it because she might think you don't want her happy. And if all else fails just love your friend from afar you don't need anyone making you feel bad,

My friend new husband?

this will definetly hurt your relationship because she will just be like why didn't you tell me about how you feel before we got married....so i dont think you should tell them about it...you should get together with their husbands even though you hate them and tell them how you feel because you can really express your feelings to the person you are mad at then your best friend

My friend new husband?

she want like your reactions.but gotta be honest.it's the right thing to do.She will talk to him but he will never change is what I think.

My friend new husband?

She will take his side, when push comes to shove..If he is really like that he probably doesn't care if you come around..He probably want her to himself...she will find out sooner or later on her own...just be there if she needs you get her to meet you away from him...I know it hurts but try not to blame her.........

My friend new husband?

Well if he's an alcholic he may not know whta he's saying. I am not saying that his behavior is tolerable, but you should do what you stated. She may say something that bothers her too about him. Or she might not believe you and say you are jealous of her. You might want to tell her that maybe she could talk to him or maybe you should be talking to him instead of her.

My friend new husband?

Be very careful how you approach this- just think about this- if he dogs on you all and insults you all, do you think in private he might be even more insulting or verbally or even phsyically abusive to her? If you hurt her feelings in this, then you might be cutting off one of her only "lifelines"-- good friends. By all means, take her out and try to find out how things are really going for her- if she is happy etc-- but don't jeopardize the friendship over your own anger and hurt feelings- yes- the guy is a jerk- but my concern is- if he is a jerk to her friends, maybe he is even harsher with her....

My friend new husband?

If he treats you like that I'd hate to imagine how he treats her. Unfortunately babe, this IS going to come between you guys because she is still in the early stages of the relationship and he will be the centre of her universe right now. Let her know how you feel (GENTLY) but also let her know that you are there for her. Still arrange to meet for girly lunches etc. but make your point and don't invite yourself to be insulted. Avoid seeing her when you know he is going to be around. I hope she understands!

My friend new husband?

Well she's probably not going to like it and maybe feel a bit "ganged up on" with two of you telling her this simultaneously however, if he's as bad as you make out... I imagine she already knows this. If he thinks he has the right to speak to women he barely knows like that... imagine what your friend must suffer! Maybe you should speak to her on her own and who knows... maybe she'll open up about other things! It's not really her fault as you already know so, why not speak to the Mr. himself?

My friend new husband?

Just Say it in a nice and straight way how you feel about her husband. She should understand. All the best

My friend new husband?

I'm sorry to say that your friend did not take much time in thinking about marriage.. a year is not very long to know someone and from the sound of him , I would not like him either. He sounds like a jerk.

Yes , be prepared because if she is influenced by him he may even convince her to dump her friends.. He is jealous that she has such nice friends that care about the person he married, and he figures that she doesn't need her friends since now he is there...

He sounds like he's insecure also.

I would step back and give a cold shoulder for a while, let her miss her girlfriends and let her call you for a get- together.

Invite her, but don't insist or be upset if she doesn't show up or leaves you flat for that knucklehead...

My friend new husband?

why not only go and see herwhen her husband isnt there

u dont have to be so blunt cos if it comes to it she will probably dump u as friends and u will regret opening yr big mouth

My friend new husband?

well if she reacts carmly carry on talking to her and ask her if she could get him to stop with his fowl language and mean insults and tell her u all lv her to bits and you dont want her mean husband to get in the way of years of friendship

i think for goin out and gettin marrid in a year is pritty stupid to be honest

she sould have thought it through properly first

plus if he only insults you when your friend is not there she proberly seeing a compleatly diffrent person and if does it in frount of her then ses its a joke same thing but sees only half the person she thinks she has married

xx hope that helps you out xx

My friend new husband?

why are you involving your friend - by doing this you're putting her in an awkward situation. You need to speak to her husband directly about this. NExt time you're there ask him for a quiet word and tell him then that you feel his behaviour is a bit over the top and that you dont feel comfortable by being around him - explain that you dont want to loose contact with your friend - if hes a decent sort he'll stop the behaviour straight away - if he continues it - I dont think you have any other option but to meet your friend on girls nights out - without bringing any of your husbands along. xx