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Had a boyfriend who has a 2 year old daughter. He wanting me to get close to her so he allowed me to spend time with her. She and I get along well. Kid is cute. He lives in my building ,one floor below me . Oct 31 took her to the mall to enjoy an evening with me. He supplied the car seat for my car . Took her on the merrygoround and then to some stores and then to the kid's hairdresser for a cute haircut. He is livid. Cut the kid's hair..against my religion ..has to make a special trip to India to say prayers and light oil and ask for forgiveness etc. etc. trip cost $18,000. Because I am unwilling to pay the price has now gone up to $500,000 because I told him to count me out as his friend over a "blotched haircut" as he calls it. I call the police to say he is extorting money. No he says...just getting money for "lack of hair on my kid's head and the pain of not having 1" of hair. I call him to talk to him and tell him I will countersue him.Kid's birthday is tommorrow. Sad no friend.

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First of all you had not right to cut her hair...you are not her mother or father...shame on you.

As far as the money goes...dont give him a dime_

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idk u got me confuse$$$$$

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Countersue, don't waste any time.

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Umm, this is hard one to answer. I think the courts will be stumped as well.

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Even though I respect and accept everyone's beliefs, what he is doing is just way out of hand. Talk to a professional (like a counselor, or someone who knows about Hindu religion but is not biased towards it). Be there for the kid.

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you must have a real communication prob. and i'm really confused.

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i think any judge in their right mind is going to laugh his *** off at this one. never heard of something so silly

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I don't really have much of a solution to this problem. But it seems to me that your boyfriend has no consideration for your religion. Why do something on purpose when you already know the negative consequences to it in regards to your beliefs? I would sit down and talk to him. Tell him how important your religion is to you and how it reflects on the child. Forgiveness isn't that easy. Especially when you do something on purpose, thinking that forgiveness will cover it all up. Forgiveness is something you can ask for ANYWHERE, ANYTIME. Not just India. Consider that and good luck.

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He can't do this!! It's a friggin haircut gosh.

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This is just a haircut--the beauty of it is--her hair will grow back! I guess this is kinda hard to understand the way you have explained this--I am understanding she is his daughter and you spent time with her at the mall and had some fun got her hair cut--which you probably should not have done without his permission--however you did--but her hair will grow back. The cost is out of this world--how can it go from $18,000 to half mil??? I don't see how he can sue you for that--you should consult an attorney for it.

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Buy her a wig... hell of a lot cheaper than a trip to India.

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although you made a mistake in making a bad choice....cutting a childs hair without permission...I would let him sue me...they willl laugh in his face!!! Good luck to him finding a GOOD lawyer to take on the case also!!!

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I don't know why your friend wants you to pay for his trip to India,he can say his prayer's the oil and ask for forgiveness here.

If the haircut was botched,it is up to the person who cut the hair or the manager of the place you took his daughter,to correct the problem if possible or make retribution (refund the money) what ever it takes within reason to satisfy the customer.

It does sound your friend just wants money and doesn't value friendship.

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the saddest part of this is that the child will suffer the most -- losing new friend. i suggest you arrange to have another friend take a birthday present to the child for you so child will at least know you are not angry with the child, that the disagreement is between you and the father. then, if he goes on with suing you definately counter-sue!! you probably should not have cut hair without asking first, but both $18,000 and $500,000 are nothing but extortion!! he is trying to intimidate you - do not let him. at best you owe for the cost of a new hair cut, nothing more! but do send present some way so child will not be sad.